New Month = New …

October 2013 marked a bunch of new changes for me. While transitions can be stressful, sometimes they are so necessary to help get your life going in a better direction. October marks a new beginning for my boys and I. We are now West Coasters!! I have been wanting to get out of Newark, NJ for quite some time, wanted a new job and just a new way of living. So with my maternity leave wrapping up and a great offer from my uncle and aunt, I decided to relocate. So October was a new month with so many new challenges to deal with and many new parts of life that I get to learn as a woman and more importantly as a mom.

New as of October: city, home, parenting 2 boys, school search, job search, exercising with 2 small ones, dealing with tantrums (aaaahhh!), parenting 2 without the usual support people near by AND life’s vision. I’m sure this list can go on, but I’ll stop here for now.

As I go through life, I’m learning to be patient. Patient with others and most of all patient with myself. I mentioned that my vision is new, well I should probably say it’s a bit cloudy right now. This transition took a lot of thought and I’m not sure what my new vision is. I do know it includes being THE best mom I can possibly be and contributing to the changes in the birthing situation for blacks in America right now, all while living a happy, healthy life full of new adventures.

The tone of this blog may be a bit different moving forward but I hope you will still enjoy as I continue along this journey.


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4 thoughts on “New Month = New …

  1. Carolyn Burnett

    Jill, you are a awesome women, mother, niece, friend, and you will always strive to be better because of the person you are. You have a good family and support system that’s always behind you, so keep doing what your doing, and as long as you put God first in your life, you can’t go wrong. God loves you and so do I. You go girl!

  2. Ju-Ju!!! I didn’t know you were still blogging! I will make sure I keep reading 🙂

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